Monday 3 June 2013

I'm Famous but please call me Jen

Linking up with Kristy at My Home Truths for 'I Must Confess'. This week it's about baby names.

My mother always loved the name Julie. If she had a daughter, she was going to be called Julie. So when I arrived into the world, I was Julie for the first few days of my life. That is until she didn’t like how it sounded with my middle name. As I have her name, Barbara as my middle name, the fit needed to be just right. So she changed it. Jennifer it was. And still is!

There’s my confession. My mum changed my name. Crazy really. I’m not sure being called a Julie would have made any difference to my life. Let’s face it, people get used to a name. People would have gotten used to Julie being my first name. They wouldn’t have cared less whether it sounded good with my middle name. How often does anyone mention their middle name?

So given that I have lived my life as a Jennifer, it’s been fine. Well...sort of. You see, I hate my first name being used. Yep.......don’t ever call me Jennifer. I think it’s the weird psychological association with my parents using my full name when I was in trouble. So if you call me Jennifer, I think I’m in trouble. Stupid brain. Even at 37, that’s the connection my brain makes. Jennifer – Trouble.

Trouble aside, I’m fine with Jenny, Jen, Jen Jen, Jen Wren, Jenster or Jenna. Call me any of those and I’ll answer. Call me Jennifer and that might be the last time we talk. Ouch!!
I know I shouldn’t have an issue with it. But it’s the damn conditioning from my childhood. There are many Jennifer’s who proudly use their full name. Jennifer Aniston, Jennifer Lopez, Jennifer Hawkins and Jennifer Lawrence. They don’t seem to have any problems with the name in its entirety. It’s just me, I guess.

I’m even famous. Yep.....enter Jennifer Hale into Google and there are quite a few entries. Okay.....way more than a few.
 
 I’m even famous! So famous, I'm in Wikipedia. I didn’t realise I was a famous American Actress best known for voiceover work. I’m also a model. Who would have thought? Best of all, I am a reporter with Fox Sports and was voted number 16 in ‘The 20 Sexiest Sports Reporters of 2012’. Well....that would certainly help with the fellas, wouldn’t it!

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Maybe being a Jennifer and more importantly, being Jennifer Hale, isn’t all that bad.

Oh....in case you are thinking you can use my full first name, just for the record let me make this clear, call me Jen. It's healthier for both of us.
Do you hate your full first name being used?

Jen xoxo

8 comments:

  1. I don't like my full name being used either! Possibly as it was only used in full when I was growing up if I was in trouble, BIG trouble.

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    1. Yep....crazy parents. Maybe they should call kids by their shortened name, it would avoid the full name - trouble association.

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  2. I was always called by my full name - Vanessa - growing up. It wasn't until adulthood that friends shortened it to Ness or Nessie. I don't really have a problem with any version, but Ness is quicker and easier to type!

    Jennifer was such a popular name wasn't it? So many famous ones! You're in good company. x

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    1. Thanks Ness. I think Jennifer was a popular 70's name (giving away my age now, isn't it!).

      Ness is much quicker, so is Jen :)

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  3. My Dad wanted to call me Reg Gasnier Lyons. I'm glad I was a girl.

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    1. Me too Jo!!.....That would have been an interesting name. I much prefer Jo.

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  4. Same age and same pet hate lol. I know if I get called 'Michelle' it is someone who doesn't know me that well...like the Dr who did my Pap smear the other day. Otherwise it is Shell. When I did get Michelle as a kid, I was in trouble. And if it was Michelle (middle name)...BIG trouble.

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    1. Yep....I got the full name and middle name when I was in big trouble. Super big trouble!!!

      I tend to use my full name on official things like a test, forms etc. but shortened version generally preferred.

      Thanks Shell!

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